What is Intellectual Disability
Understanding Intellectual Disability
Much of what parents encounter about Intellectual Disability is filtered through neuronormative assumptions about how people are expected to learn, communicate, and live independently. When a child’s development does not align with these expectations, difference can often be framed as deficiency rather than variation.
A neuroaffirmative understanding asks us to shift that lens.
Intellectual Disability & Neurodivergence
Intellectual Disability is one form of neurodivergence. It reflects natural variation in how human brains develop, process information, and apply learning in everyday life. It relates to learning pace and to the level of support someone may need with communication, daily living, and participation.
These differences are not evidence of lesser worth, reduced humanity, or diminished potential for connection and joy. They become disabling primarily when environments are rigid, inaccessible, or built around narrow definitions of intelligence and independence.
From a neurodiversity perspective, Intellectual Disability is part of human biodiversity.
How Intellectual Disability is identified
Intellectual Disability is identified through a comprehensive psychological assessment carried out by a psychologist with specialist training in development and learning profiles. This process draws together multiple sources of information to understand how a child participates in daily life.
Assessment typically considers how a child learns, communicates, reasons, adapts to everyday routines, and participates across environments such as home and school. Standardised clinical tools will be used, and they are interpreted alongside observation, developmental history, and contextual information. Parental and caregiver insight is central.
The purpose of identification is not to set limits on a child’s future. It exists to clarify what kinds of environments, supports, and accommodations reduce barriers and support meaningful participation within systems shaped by the predominant neuronormative society we exist in.
Global Developmental Delay and developmental understanding
In the early years, child development is highly dynamic and non-linear. For this reason, professionals in Ireland often use the term Global Developmental Delay (GDD) when a young child is showing developmental differences across multiple areas and is still too young for reliable, long-term cognitive assessment.
Irish organisations such as Enable Ireland describe Global Developmental Delay as a term used when a child is not yet at an age or developmental stage where formal cognitive testing can provide a stable or meaningful picture, but where there are clear indicators that development is unfolding differently and support is needed. This reflects a cautious, developmentally informed approach that prioritises understanding current needs rather than making premature assumptions about future learning profiles.
National policy frameworks within the Irish health and disability system, including HSE-linked policy on access to services for children with disability and developmental delay, recognise developmental delay as a valid basis for assessment, support, and service provision. This reflects an understanding that early developmental differences require timely, individualised support, even when long-term diagnostic clarity is still emerging.
As children grow and more developmental information becomes available over time, patterns of learning, communication, and adaptive capacity often become clearer. At this stage, some children may meet criteria for Intellectual Disability. This does not indicate a change in the child, nor does it represent deterioration. Rather, it reflects increased developmental understanding and the availability of more reliable assessment information to guide longer-term planning and support.
Both Global Developmental Delay and Intellectual Disability are system-based terms. They exist to support access to understanding, resources, and appropriate environments. Neither term describes a child’s identity, worth, or future quality of life. From a neuroaffirmative perspective, these terms should always be used to reduce barriers and increase inclusion, not to define limits or expectations.
Rethinking “levels” and support needs
Terms such as mild, moderate, severe, or profound are are often mistakenly interpreted as fixed indicators of intelligence, capability, or life potential. In reality, they are used as administrative and descriptive categories, designed to communicate the type and intensity of support a person may require within health, education, and social care systems.
Contemporary diagnostic frameworks are explicit that these descriptors do not define a person. They are not measures of worth, importance, or the capacity for learning, relationships, contribution, or joy. Their primary purpose is to guide planning, funding, and service provision in systems that require categorisation to allocate resources effectively.
A person’s level of required support can vary significantly depending on context. For example, an individual may need substantial support in formal educational or bureaucratic environments, while requiring far less support in familiar, relational, or interest-based settings. Sensory demands, communication accessibility, expectations, and environmental flexibility all shape how much support is needed at any given time.
Across all support levels, what remains constant is the person’s right to dignity, autonomy, participation, and inclusion. A neuroaffirmative approach centres the understanding that challenges arise not from the individual, but from mismatches between a person’s needs and the environments they are expected to navigate. The ethical and evidence-based response is therefore not to lower expectations of the person, but to adapt systems, environments, and supports so that meaningful participation is possible.
Learning beyond neuronormative definitions of success
Many education systems and social structures are built on neuronormative assumptions about what learning should look like. Speed, abstraction, verbal reasoning, and early independence are often positioned as universal indicators of competence. These markers reflect cultural priorities rather than objective measures of learning or intelligence.
From a neurodiversity-informed perspective, learning is understood as contextual, relational, and multifaceted. For people with Intellectual Disabilities, learning unfolds most effectively when it is grounded in meaningful relationships, concrete experiences, visual and environmental supports, predictability, and relevance to everyday life. These conditions are not remedial. They are valid learning contexts that support understanding, confidence, and participation.
Learning extends far beyond academic attainment. It includes the development of communication in all its forms, relational connection, self-advocacy, daily living skills, creative expression, and engagement within family and community life. These domains are not secondary or preparatory. They are central to wellbeing, autonomy, and a sense of belonging.
When success is redefined in relational and participatory terms, progress becomes visible in ways that neuronormative systems often fail to recognise.
Parents, emotions, and reframing expectations
When parents first encounter the language of Intellectual Disability, emotional responses are both common and understandable. These responses do not arise because of the child themselves, but because parents are navigating deeply ingrained societal narratives about achievement, independence, productivity, and adulthood.
Feelings such as grief, fear, or uncertainty often reflect the process of unlearning neuronormative expectations and reorienting towards a different understanding of development and success. This is not a failure of acceptance. It is a natural psychological adjustment to a world that has historically defined worth through narrow measures of capability.
Within a neuroaffirmative framework, acceptance is not passive or static. It involves recognising a child as whole, complete, and worthy in the present, while actively challenging systems that create barriers to their inclusion. Parents can hold both acceptance and advocacy simultaneously. They can honour who their child is now and continue to work towards environments that support growth, dignity, and participation.
Hope, in this context, does not depend on conformity to societal norms. It emerges when families are supported to imagine a wide range of meaningful futures and when success is defined by quality of life, connection, agency, and belonging.
A neuroaffirmative approach
A neuroaffirmative approach begins with the assumption of capacity. It recognises that all people communicate, learn, and relate in ways that are meaningful, even when those ways differ from dominant societal norms. Autonomy is prioritised through supported decision-making, accessible communication, and respect for preferences and boundaries.
Rather than focusing on changing the individual, a neuroaffirmative stance interrogates the role of systems, environments, and expectations. Many of the challenges experienced by people with Intellectual Disabilities are not inherent to the individual, but arise from exclusionary design, inaccessible communication, and ableist assumptions embedded within education, healthcare, and community structures.
From this perspective, inclusion is not about assimilation or fitting in. It is about creating conditions where people can participate as themselves, without having to suppress or reshape their ways of learning, communicating, or being. Belonging is achieved not through compliance with norms, but through recognition, respect, and relational safety.
Recommended Resources on Intellectual Disability Ireland
Below is a list of support services/charities available to provide Intellectual Disability support and advice.